Big announcement or not....your thoughts?

I think you might want to wait. Think about how you would feel if that happened to you. How devastated you would be. It hard enough not to be able to conceive but to also conceive and have a miscarriage has to be harder. I say wait until after christmas and then do a big announcement. I know when I was trying to conceive and then found out that my sister in law was pregnant it devastated me. I couldn't even be happy for her because of how upset I was. It might ruin her christmas.