It may sound like a silly question(s)...?

Please don't take me for a ist, as I believe that possibly extreme feminism has created these misconceptions concerning males in the first place. My first question is, if an older man (a non virgin) were to fall in love with a younger woman, but she was a virgin and did not believe in premarital , would he be patient, or say hell with this, I'm finding someone who will give me some sugar (remember you're madly in love with her). My second question is, is better for men when they are in love. I know it sounds like an inane, insulting question, but I have been reading quite a bit about psychology, and male emotions during , shockingly is an untouched topic (pardon the pun), and is even often trivialized or brushed off completely by so- called therapists. Honest answers, please. preferably from a male or a psychologist. I really would like to know, and I am pretty sure a lot of females are curious about the answers to the same two questions.